If you ever spent a quiet morning walking along the river or watching the ocean glimmer through dunes covered in vegetation, you would know how the natural world can affect the nervous system allowing it to drop its guard and enter a state of calming presence. The body experiences a felt somatic sense of safety and resonance. And yet how many of us deal with chronic tension, persistent tightness, fibromyalgia, IBS or chronic fatigue even when we've given ourselves ample rest attempts.
You can experience these mind-body contradictions, where one part wants to slow down and just be, and other part pressures to do more, or where one part wants to express itself and another part restricts or supress expression. We can experience it as anxiety, a loud inner critic, feeling lack of self-drive, indecision, avoidance, even relentlessness or depression.
The Somatic approach and Parts work recognise these inner conflicts as dynamic biological adaptations, where 'parts' of us learned to keep vigilance and gravitate towards guardedness and protection, but over time, if not witnessed or integrated, can be experienced as real burdens.
What Is Parts Work? Understanding Your Internal Ecosystem
We cannot view the body and mind as separated entities. When an uncomfortable symptom arises, whether it is chronic pain, anxiety, or digestive flare-ups, we tend to respond with isolation, elimination, or suppression. Sometimes by ignoring the issue or numbing the symptoms with medication.
If you heard about Internal Family Systems (IFS), it views the person as a rich internal ecosystem composed of multi facets or parts. Each carries its own unique perspective, memories, emotional tone, and physiological signature. IFS presents a premise that reshapes how we view healing: There are no bad parts, only good parts.
Our habits, postural braces, and physical and mind symptoms are but intelligent, adaptive components designed to buffer our living experience from pain, stress or overwhelm.Parts Through the Lense of IFS
Protective Parts (Managers): These parts work to control our environment and keep us safe. In the body, they manifest as hyper-vigilance, chronic posture guarding, shallow breathing, or persistent muscle contraction.
Protective Parts (Firefighters): When emotional distress threatens to break through our defenses, these parts step in to numb or distract us. Physically, this often looks like wanting to withdraw, feeling fatigue, brain fog, heavy limbs, or even dissociation.
Vulnerable Parts (Exiles): These are the sensitive core aspects of ourselves that carry the raw weight of past hurt, fear, or unmet needs. Because their distress feels overwhelming, our protective parts work around the clock to keep them at bay under physical armor.
Personal Burdens vs. Legacy Burdens: What Are We Carrying?
Parts are not inherently anxious, braced, or exhausted. Rather, they carry burdens, accumulated emotional weight, protective beliefs, and neural patterns attached to experiences. The good news is that they can learn to relax and become collaboratorss.
To understand why chronic tension can be so stubborn, it helps to explore two primary types of burdens:
1. Personal Burdens
These are protective adaptations formed during our lifetime. They develop in response to specific injuries, childhood conditioning, trauma, or prolonged periods of stress, relational or environmental.
If you learned early in life that expressing anger was unsafe, a protective manager part might habituate chronic contraction in your throat, diaphragm, to physically suppress that impulse. This can manifest in shallow breathing, self-repression, people pleasing tendencies and a loud inner critic.
2. Legacy Burdens (Ancestral Trajectories)
Often, the depth or complexity of our tensions feel out of proportion to our individual life experiences. Something is vert much felt as a burden but doesn't feel entirely yours. That's where legacy burdens come into play.
Legacy burdens are emotional and physiological holding patterns inherited across generations. Before epigenetics and our understanding of how trauma impacts gene expression, therapists recognised that unresolved grief, historical displacement, or prolonged survival stress in a family line can leave a distinct footprint in the neurobiology of family lines.
An ancestor's need to remain perpetually vigilant during wartime or economic hardship can be passed down as an inherited autonomic bias, leaving the individual with a baseline resting state of high muscle tone, elevated cortisol and tendencies of mental, emotional and somatic tensions.
Legacy Gifts: Reclaiming Ancestral Resilience
Legacy is never solely comprised of trauma of course. Alongside inherited burdens, our lineage carries legacy gifts - deep biological reserves of endurance, intuitive wisdom, creative vitality, and natural somatic connection, orientation and grounding. Both gifts and burdens can influence our epigenetics.The actviation of genes linked with our burdens or those responsible for our brilliance, resillience and resourcefulness.
But when the nervous system is stuck in chronic defense, access to these inherited gifts becomes obscured by the protective parts. Unburdening the historical stress held in the body allows those innate strengths to surface and restore a felt sense of rootedness, vitality and flow.
Befriending Our 'Parts' Can Unburden the Past
Our nervous system governs every muscle fiber, fascial sheath, and organ function. Our internal parts are not mere psychological concept. They are connected and embedded through our neurological constitution. A protective neural circuit can remain activated, passed down through the family system, through ancestors, and can shape the how we experience ourselves in our body, guarded, anxious, displaced, experience challenging attachment patterns or disconnect.
The shift from conflict to collaboration is where IFS feels useful to me -it can support a shift from a resistant state to a dynamic, connected one. It involves an exploration of a gentle process where one gets to know their different burdened parts and burdens them as gift parts are activated. I have found that the integration of the somatic approach to counselling with intentional bodywork, can facilitate and embodied connection with parts and their resourcefulness. About Elijah Forest Therapy Elijah Forest is a somatic practitioner and remedial massage therapist, offering embodied counselling and bodywork sessions in 2 Fremantle locations:
130 Hampton Rd, Fremantle and 38 George St, East FremantleOnline sessions via Zoom are also available.Elijah combines counselling approaches, massage modalities and mindfulness,supporting clients in their processes of self-discovery and connection. Elijah Forest Therapy offers an inclusive, non-judgmental, welcoming, supportive space for healing. Book your session today. www.elijahforest.comConnect. Thrive.
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